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Bex coaching in a woodland near Southend-on-Sea

My Neurodiversity & Chronic Illness Story

I am passionate about helping neurodivergent and chronically ill clients to conquer stress, burnout, overwhelm and disorganisation so that they can get back to being in control of their lives. Harnessing the power of nature, I nurture clients back to thriving!

As a neurodivergent, I fully understand and believe in working with both the mind and body, the importance of pacing and the vast benefits of regularly connecting with nature. I’ve seen the immense advantages of working this way when helping ADHD, autistic, AuDHD, dyslexic, dyspraxic, HSP and chronically ill clients to take more control of their lives and when dealing with overwhelm, decision-making, procrastination, burnout, stress and being stuck. I support those with chronic fatigue and chronic pain to have a better quality of life. I’m also LGBTQIA+ and coach folks whose struggles with their identity are affecting their health, energy levels and zest for life!

I am passionate about nature, life-long learning and the arts. Nature has been a big part of my own journey, from coping with chronic illnesses and burnout to now thriving with long-term coping strategies. I began growing my own food on my tiny patio. This has expanded to now having an allotment with hens in Southend-on-Sea, Essex, and eating most of my own produce, including jams, chutney, cordials, eggs, fresh fruit and vegetables! I have found peace in nature to be one of the best ways to cope with sensory overload and stress.

From a young age, I knew I was different from the other children - being slow to complete school work, struggling with spelling and handwriting, and becoming easily distracted. I was diagnosed with dyslexia whilst studying, of all things, a languages degree! I didn’t feel that dyslexia quite explained all of the challenges in my life: extreme fatigue, sensory processing issues, daydreaming, anxiety, hyperfocus and having more hobbies than anyone else! So, I started to read up on conditions that could explain this and AuDHD fitted. Like many neurodiverse folks, I struggled with self-confidence and imposter syndrome throughout childhood and for most of my teens and 20s and never felt good enough. This led me to do four university degrees and a professional diploma before realising I needed to address this issue. Thankfully, now I have many coping strategies to deal with this challenge!


Leading Expert in Neurodiversity and Chronic Illness Coaching

When I first trained as a coach, I wanted to provide a service to give others the support I needed in my 20s and share the knowledge I gained from years of research and experience.

Over the past few years, I have become fascinated with the impact that both time in nature and the decluttering and organisation of the home and workplace can have on the mind and body. If you constantly lose things or spend too much time looking for where things are and want to organise your space so that everything has a home where it belongs, then I am the coach for you!

As an experienced coach with over half a decade of experience, I am now one of the leading UK experts on using nature and permaculture in neurodiversity and chronic illness coaching.

I coach online and offer face-to-face coaching in nature in the Southend-on-Sea, Leigh-on-Sea, and Hockley areas in Essex.

I am an Accredited Coach and full member of The Association for Coaching (AC accreditation and membership number 69279960) and follow their ethics and confidentiality standards. I am fully insured, have my own coach, and regularly participate in coaching supervision and CPD (Continued Professional Development), such as ADHD coaching.

ADHD Coach who qualified at Animas Centre for Coaching
Autism coach who is accredited by the Association for Coaching
Chronic Illness Coach accredited by the Association for Coaching
Best ADHD coach in Southend-on-Sea award

Why Work With Me?

  • Well-Qualified

    Accredited Diploma in Transformational Coaching (Animas School of Coaching, 2018)

    Animas CPD certificates in ‘Group Coaching’,Existential Coaching’, ‘Narrative Practices in Coaching’ and ‘Neurodiversity in Coaching: Context and Skills for Effective Practice’, all recognised by the International Coach Federation (2018-2024)

    CPD in Trauma-informed Coach Training (Julia Vaughan Smith, 2023) and Managing Difficult Conversations: Co-coaching and Mediation (Genius Within, 2024)

    NCFE CACHE Level 2 in Counselling Skills (Bath College, 2022) and NCFE CACHE Level 2 in Mental Health First Aid (West Lancashire College, 2023)

    Qualified teacher (PGCE - Canterbury Christchurch University, 2016)

    BA, MA and PhD (University of Nottingham 2009, 2010 and 2015)

  • Award-Winning

    Best Life Coach in Southend-on-Sea, 2023 (Quality Business Awards)

    Lifestyle Coach of the Year, 2023 (London & South England Prestige Awards)

    Best Decluttering & Organisation Coaching Provider - UK (Education and Training Awards, 2022)

    Dozens of excellent reviews of my coaching and tutoring online (Facebook, Google, Yell & Bark)

    Graded an ‘Outstanding’ teacher (WEA, 2020)

    Higher Education Teaching Award (University of Nottingham, 2012)

    ‘Associate Member’ of the Higher Education Academy (Awarded in 2011)

    Arts and Humanities Research Council PhD Studentship Award (2010)

  • Professional

    Accredited Coach status and full member of The Association for Coaching - I adhere to their ethics and confidentiality standards

    Contracted by

    Fully insured and have my own coach

    Regularly participate in Continued Professional Development and coaching supervision.

    DBS-checked on the DBS ‘Update’ Service

    Fully trained in ‘Prevent’ and ‘Safeguarding’

  • Experienced

    I’ve been running my business since 2017 and been a WEA tutor since 2014.

    I have coached numerous clients to enable them to set up businesses, achieve personal goals and change their lives for the better!

    I’ve been practicing meditation and nature-based spirituality since 2000. I teach meditation and mindfulness courses with the WEA and have been coaching with these approaches for several years.

    Published research and co-editor of a book.

“Bex is a skilled and insightful life coach.

Bex used a combination of open questioning and values-based exercises which helped me clarify where I was at and what I wanted to work on, leading me to make positive changes I wanted to make in my career that would otherwise have taken me much longer or not happened at all!

Even after 2 sessions, I was left with clarity of thought and purpose that benefited my life and gave me confidence.”

5 star outstanding ADHD coaching in Leigh-on-Sea and Southend

— Reanna (Google Reviewer)

“I have had a few coaching sessions with Bex over the last couple of years. I find Bex to be an excellent listener and a caring person who has supported me and helped me to find solutions to my lifelong struggles.

Bex has helped me to find the right path and I can now say that I am debt free thanks to their support and advice.

I'm now working to improve other aspects of my life and will seek more sessions with Bex in the future.”

5 star outstanding autism coaching in Leigh-on-Sea and Southend

— Sam (Google Reviewer)